5 Red Flags When Dating
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By staying alert to these red flags, you can avoid falling into unhealthy patterns. Sometimes, without realizing it, we end up dating the same type of person repeatedly, someone with traits similar to a past partner. But that’s not what you want! Most people seek a healthy, stable relationship. In this blog, you’ll discover 5 major red flags to watch for while dating, so you can walk away in time and transform your dating experience.
#1 Little or no communication
If your crush is secretive and shares little about themselves, it could initially be due to insecurity. However, if they remain closed off after several dates and continue to reveal very little, this is a red flag. They might be holding back important details to avoid scaring you off. Open, honest communication is key to building a connection. If most of your conversations feel one-sided, consider walking away.
#2 No respect for your time
If your date is consistently late or cancels at the last minute, that’s a major red flag. You shouldn’t have to chase someone for their attention. Respecting each other’s time and effort is crucial. While emergencies can happen, it’s not acceptable for someone to repeatedly waste your time. Once might be excusable, but certainly not twice!
#3 Controlling behavior
If you feel like you can’t fully be yourself because your date exhibits controlling behavior, take a step back. While it may initially feel protective or flattering, this can turn into something oppressive and isolating as the relationship progresses. Controlling behavior is a significant red flag, so set clear boundaries to avoid losing yourself or becoming disconnected from others.
#4 Manipulation or gaslighting
If you notice your date being overly cunning or trying to make you doubt your reality, you might be dealing with a manipulator. These individuals are experts at twisting situations or getting you to do what they want. There’s a difference between influencing someone and outright manipulation. Manipulators often target people with low self-confidence. They prioritize their own needs, and this can be either a passing phase or a deeply ingrained character trait. In either case, it’s best to distance yourself quickly!
#5 Jealousy
Finally, be cautious of extreme jealousy. While a little bit of jealousy can be normal, extreme and controlling jealousy is a red flag. If your date, early on, asks too many questions about your exes or demands that you erase old photos and messages, this can indicate a dangerous level of jealousy. Such behavior stems from the desire to be the sole focus of your attention, leaving no space for others. A healthy relationship is built on trust, and a good partner will encourage you to heal from past experiences, not obsess over them.
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Date: 06-09-'24
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