Relationship doubts
Are your doubts about the relationship justified? Or does it stem from old experiences? It is pleasant and sensible to talk about it with a confidential person. Someone who is there for you, and who can give you insights.6 most common reasons why you doubt your relationship
1. Love is not the same anymore
2. It is difficult to communicate with each other
3. Takes it for granted
4. Your partner spends more time on his phone
5. Bad Sex Life
6. Your partner cheated on you
7. Annoyances in everyday life.
1. Love is not the same anymore
Being in love makes you feel good, and you want to be in each other's arms all day long. When you're together longer, the rut sets in. How exciting was it in the beginning? How normal is it today? Try to plan something exciting like you did before. Make time for each other. If the love is over and doesn't come back, you may have changed, and you have outgrown each other.
2. It is difficult or hardly possible to communicate with each other
In a relationship, you both need to communicate about what you expect from life, from each other, and from yourself. Are you worried about something, but are you afraid of your partner's reaction? Communicate your feelings. Not only will you find out if it's the one for you, but you won't let it come at the expense of your own feelings. Does your partner not respond to the communication or does your partner get angry? Try to suggest going to a relationship coach. And if that doesn't work: choose for yourself!
3. Takes it for granted
Make time for each other. Do fun things. It doesn't always have to cost money. A nice walk in the woods together with a picnic basket can provide a lot of romance and fun. Try to surprise your partner with something spontaneous. Does your partner react annoyingly or is he not in the mood for anything? Then communicate that you put a lot of effort into it, and that it no longer works without communication and making an effort for each other.
4. Your partner spends more time on his phone
Is your partner constantly on his phone, and he no longer pays attention to you? Point out to your partner that you want to spend more time together. Being on your phone is so addictive, which destroys many relationships. Even if it's just jealousy...
5. Bad Sex Life
Do you hardly or no longer have sex with your partner? Mostly because of being tired. Or the relationship has fallen into a rut. Do you know what your partner finds exciting? Does your partner know what you like? Try to start a conversation about this, and let the romance flow.
6. Your partner cheated on you
If your partner has cheated on you, you will go through a rollercoaster of emotions, especially if you have decided to stay. Trust has been damaged. Try to indicate this to your partner, that you are having trouble regaining trust in the relationship and in your partner. Ultimately, it is important that your partner makes an effort to regain your trust, for example by being very transparent and pampering you. Only in this way can recovery take place. Do you doubt his sincerity? Choose for yourself, otherwise you will remain insecure, and this will only get worse.
7. Annoyances in everyday life
Has your partner become so comfortable that he just burps in front of you? It's not good for a relationship to get too comfortable. There is a bit of tension that is missing and everything seems to be very normal. It is important to draw your partner's attention to his behavior that annoys you. Only in this way can your partner change.
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Date: 06-07-'22
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