Twin flames: He slowly disappeared from my life

Twin Flames Separation

What to do as Divine Feminine (Feminine Energy) and Chaser (Chaser) to grow.

But also to deal with the connection you keep with the Davine Masculine (masculine energy).

 

 

Twin soul separation: it feels like a great loss and I should know… I am currently going through my first separation since February 2021. But no matter how painful such separation, it does not just happen. It may not be time for an Union yet. It could also be that the male side is not ready for it yet and needs to grow into it.

 

In my case, it was that we both still had to grow. At the beginning I found it very difficult. Also with the way it happened. Very gradual and slow but I knew it was on. Slowly he disappeared from my life until a silence, emptiness and a lot of questions remained. Questions I wouldn't get an answer to right now.

 

The loss was great, it felt just like grief (mourning), as if I had lost someone or at least a part of myself. It felt worse than a heartbreak. This is of course my experience, but for each twin flame it can feel different. It was just really frustrating and confusing. On the one hand I felt an emptiness, and on the other I still felt it very strongly. Because yes.. even in separation you are still one soul.

 

I still picked up on his emotions, and in everyday life I was constantly reminded of him by double digits, to cars that resembled his own driving past. Of music that spoke to me so deeply that it seemed as if he was communicating it to me. I was completely absorbed in my emotions and the grief I felt about it. This couldn't go on any longer... I couldn't reach for him, because I was pushed away again anyway.

 

 

 

 

 

 

So I started to come up with ways for myself so that I could give all those emotions a place, and I could also continue to work on my own process, and grow into it, but that he was still a part of me.. First of all I made a playlist with all songs that described my twin flame process for me, and every time it popped up in my head I turned on the music and I threw out all the emotions that were in me.

 

I'm empathetic, so this was such a nice way to deal with it. Second, I started with a box. A box that stood for memories of things he had given me. This is how this box went: my twin soul oracle, his socials and his phone number. I gave this a nice place in my room so that if I had a moment… I could open the box and think about it for a while… so it was still with me somewhere.

 

This gave me so much strength. Finally, write. Anyway, since I couldn't get any answers at the moment anyway… I wrote them down. Everything I was dealing with, so that it was on paper and out of my head for a while. I also wrote letters to him that I missed him, or how my day had been, or that I had grown into something, you name it. I also put this one in the box of memories of him.

 

Also because I could then read back my own process if I wanted to, and see how much I had grown and that this separation only made me stronger. In addition, I started a quote account, where I put my emotions down. And now almost a year later I am still writing, but now in the way that I can also help other twin flame unions with their process, and can inspire them. People going through this twin flame union too can learn about what it is all about and that they are not alone as they go through this process. We will go through it together: find support in each other.

 

And one day he will come back...perhaps with the answers I long for. Or maybe with a whole story about how he's grown lately, and who knows, maybe he'll stay… or leave after a while because he's not ready yet. At least I know that I would always love him on a deeper level, and that I grew so much because of him when he was there… but also when he disappeared and through this whole process.

 

A very nice strong energy that I am proud of.

This guest article is written by Noa van Twinsoul Quotes.